Emotional intimacy is one of the most wonderful experiences we ever have. Nothing else really comes close to the experience of sharing our deepest thoughts and feelings with another, of being deeply seen and known, of sharing love, passion, laughter, joy, and/or creativity. The experience of intimacy fills our souls and takes away our loneliness. Why, then, would someone be…
Tag: Rejection
How To Get A Girl To Go On A Date With You
Girls can be sometimes hard to convince especially when it comes to asking them out on dates. A person cannot blame the girl if there are reasons why she is not available for the date. She may be busy on her work or she might be attending an important gathering. There could be a possibility that she might be insecure…
Overcoming Fears Of Intimacy
Sam, age 42, had never been married. It’s not that Sam had never fallen in love. But every time a relationship had started to move toward commitment, Sam ran. When Sam’s loneliness became overwhelming to him, he called me for help. “I want to be in a relationship, yet every time I get close to someone, I run away. I’m…
Honesty The First Step To Happiness
Honesty is the first and most basic step to being happiy and healthy. It is not a surprise that it is teh first step in the 12-steps as well. The 12-steps are not just for addicts or people who believe in God. As a clinician I have developed an appreciation for how simply enacting the spiritual principles of the 12-Steps…
A Diet For The 500 Pound Phone
Many time direct sales party-plan consultants will comment their phone suddenly weighs 500 pounds when they need to make business calls. Particularly when those calls are to get bookings. What is it that prevents consultants from getting on the phone and making those calls? Fear. There is the fear of making a mistake. Fear of not knowing what to say.…
How To Achieve Marvelous Results With Women
Their are some of questions you ask yourself and you end up falling asleep with no answer. You go out drinking with your fellow man and what happens leaves your mouth gaped. Your friend goes home with about thirty contacts from women he has just met. He even manages to take a top dancer home at the end of the…
Credit Card Application
Rejection of credit card application As time progresses, more and more people are joining the revolution called ‘Credit card’. Yes, it’s really a revolution. Now you don’t need to worry about how much cash you have in your pocket when you go shopping, just carrying this small piece of plastic (credit card) is enough to assure you of a good…
So She Stood You Up
Have you ever had this experience? You finally found the nerve to ask that “special girl” out on a date to dinner and a movie. Without even hesitating she gave you a nervous “yes!”. Perhaps you even talked further on the phone and felt that you two clicked well. The date was planned and finally comes Saturday night. You are…
A Diet For The 500 Pound Phone
Many time direct sales party-plan consultants will comment their phone suddenly weighs 500 pounds when they need to make business calls. Particularly when those calls are to get bookings. What is it that prevents consultants from getting on the phone and making those calls? Fear. There is the fear of making a mistake. Fear of not knowing what to say.…