For her traumatic wounds to heal, the victim of abuse requires closure – one final interaction with her tormentor in which he, hopefully, acknowledges his misbehaviour and even tenders an apology. Fat chance. Few abusers – especially if they are narcissistic – are amenable to such weakling pleasantries. More often, the abused are left to wallow in a poisonous stew…
Category: Divorce
Divorce Mediation
Divorce mediation has become a more affordable and ‘harmonious’ way to deal with one’s divorce. But it’s significant to note that not all divorce cases are meant for divorce mediation. In cases where you have an abusive spouse, the safety that the Court may provide would be recommended. When you are dealing with a spouse who perpetually argues with every…
Validity Of A Will Executed In A Foreign Place
GENERAL RULE AS TO VALIDITY OF A WILL EXECUTED IN A FOREIGN PLACE 1. A Will is to be taken to be properly executed if its execution conforms to the Internal Law in force in the place:- * a) where it was executed; or * b) which was the testator’s domicile or habitual residence, either at the time the Will…
Unhealthy Emotions Associated With Being Dumped
Being dumped can be a traumatic experience for anyone. Relationships are complex and difficult at times. While some people who are dumped seem to find a way to move on without much damage, most people who are dumped have serious emotional issues. Some of the negative reactions to the difficult emotions that come out of the break up can seriously…
How To Break The News Of Divorce To Your Kids
Divorce can be a traumatic experience for your children. No matter how old they are, the divorce will be hard for them to understand and eventually to accept. Some children in fact harbor hopes that their parents will get back together even after several years of living apart. Many children feel that they are the ones at fault when their…
How To Tell Your Children About Divorce
Whether your divorce is amicable or contentious, when and how to tell your children can be a difficult issue. Your children may already know that there are difficulties in your home life and marriage, but you may be surprised at the level of their sophistication and knowledge about divorce. Even if they are relieved to hear that a difficult home…
Divorce Are You Heading Towards It Test Now
Divorce is not like a volcano. One fine day, we find that a volcano has erupted. Divorce happens over a period of time. The relationship breaks down continuously and we realize that life can no longer be lived together. Many couples wake up when the break down has become total. That becomes very difficult to save the marriage. After that…
Prevent Divorce Basics
Your marriage is in trouble, and you know that even though you want to get it all over with that you still love your partner and that you will probably regret your actions in the near future, the action needed is clear- you need to prevent divorce. Divorce is not the answer, and rushing into one is a big mistake,…
Divorce Overview
Divorce is not just a termination. It’s a beginning. Maybe your friends of the family or people at work will be going through its own set of changes as you face others with your new civil status. Divorce may be defined as a termination but it is the start of new beginnings and the introduction of a number of changes…
Divorce And Hidden Assets
Not surprisingly, assets are often hidden in a divorce situation. Why – well simply greed, or the feelings of betrayal or anger at the need to divide assets in the divorce, or the fear of not having enough after the divorce all motivate the behavior of hiding assets. In divorce, the parties assets are divided. Under the divorce laws of…