Men are interested in dating older women because
they are more experienced and more capable of
handling relationships smoothly. Older women are
more mature, financially independent, and good
lovers.
Younger men have been attracted to older women
for a long time. This happens because older women
are mature, know what expect from life, and do
not care about what ‘neighbors say’. If in the
past this was a big shame, today these couples
are not keeping in secret anymore their
relationship.
Dating older woman can be a nice and exciting
experience. If you are a person interested in
dating older woman, you must think before because
there are good parts and bad parts.
Some of the bad parts are that she has passed
over in life and has many worries. She has ex-
boyfriends, husbands, children’s, pending
divorces, financial obligations, debts. Maybe
your friends will consider you a hero, but your
friends will talk about you, frown upon you.
Remember that she is older than you are, has life
experience, so she is often in control, and would
like to manipulate you.
The good part is that she knows a lot about
female- male relationships. She knows very well
what she wants and from whom and they usually
looking for a man that consider like them that
compatibility and open communication are more
important than age. They do not need a man to
take care of them. Older women are forthright and
honest and they will tell you right off, what she
thinks about you so you do not have to wonder
where you stand with her.
It is necessary that you find an older woman who
is interested in a younger man. You will have
bigger chances of success to win her heart .If
you already have a date with her, do not blow up.
Here are some helpful tips for attracting her.
Be yourself. She is dating you because she likes
you; you offer her spontaneity and fun. So, do
not even think about impersonating someone that
you are not.
Take her somewhere she has never been before;
show her that you are different from other men
your age. Invite her at a jazz club, concert or
an exotic restaurant.
You must change the topic of your discussions.
Ask about her job, hobbies, what type of music
she likes… Lady is smart, confident and mature,
so do not discuss about age. You should be
confident too.
Be spontaneous. Offer her something that people
her age cannot, like excitement in and out of the
bed. She is usually not looking for a serious
relationship – she just wants to have fun.
However, it is true that older women can do a lot
for a younger man – besides sex.
Do not compare her to your ex. This would not
make her feel better with you. The older woman
can feel comfortable being with you even if you
are younger and it will be at ease with your
presence. Make her feel important and show her
that you are interested in her.
You have to have the same intensity about life
like her. You must know that an older woman will
never wake you in the middle of the night to ask
what you are thinking, and this should not bother
to you.
Do not move too fast. You know that she is not
looking to make fast a family, because she
already had one and that one failed. Maybe she
already has children’s and this will complicate
things. You should always be willing to accept
the complications that come with dating an older
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